.But what Astrid does not recognize yet is an honest truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that possesses 2 sons-- can attest to: The truth that your connection along with your parents improvements as well as grows as you each get older, as well as perhaps right. "Your globe centers around [your youngsters] when they are actually children [and also] it is actually so much work but attractive," O'Hara says. "Eventually, you actually miss out on that, given that after that you can't acquire them to accomplish everything you wish them to do, given that they begin developing their personal thoughts, their very own opinions." And inevitably, you end up in the area O'Hara, whose boys reside in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself today, capable to pick up from her little ones. "They're simply such trendy younger fellas," she claims. "I am actually certainly not their colleague, but I love possessing discussions with them as well as understanding exactly how they deal with life.".